I was busy working alone in
the kitchen yesterday evening .... when my lil Seha came in and stop
still looking out the kitchen window .... then she pointed out to me
and exclaimed " Umi ... Umi .. Tehnok" ( she is still very pelat even
thought dah 4yrs heheh ) " apa aje lah ... dah masuk masuk " I ignored
her ... then she continued " tehnok ... (pointing out the window)" "
ada orang romen romen .... Ngok ngok dia cium cium"
to my suprise .. betooollll .. ada young couple ni tengok bercumbuan,
oblivious of their surrounding kat tangga dekat lift, belakang my Blok
.. sheeshhhh ....
Seha was giggling and say " dorang mentel mi" heheh .. I rushed
her out of the kitchen and took my Camera .. tapi when I wanna snap ..
dorang dah tak der .....
hhmmm .. apa laa budak budak sekarang ni .... asal boleh jerrr ... and
it was like just before magrib and daylight still ada ...
Heheheh .. subject tu .. my daughter Ayush yang suka cakap ... ni suma
influence dari sekolah lah nih ... ok .. the subject for this entry ni
.. actually derive dari a friend's
blog yang mengatakan tentang poligami .... dari blog dia ni .. nak
pendek kan cerita .. memang saya sokong benar .. ada truth dalam
perbincangan dia .. dan kita harus menerima nya dengan minda yang
terbuka dan Iman yang mantap.
Dalam article beliau itu ... terngiang ngiang ... suatu perbicaraan aku
dengan arwah Abah sedikit masa dahulu ..... but I am just not a good
writer as my friend ni .. so susah sikit nak mentranslate kan my conversation with arwah Abah ...
Tapi tadi pagi time tengah termenung kat bilik termenung .... aku ni
selalu nya tak termenung, tapi baca komik ... So dalam artikle kat
komik UJANG tu .. ada artikel yang kene mengena dengan artikel kawan
aku nih .. actually by reading kawan
ni punya artikel, dan artikel artikel yang lain lain sebelum nya .. aku dapati dia ni sekepala dengan aku, nama pun
serupa ... cuma beza nya ... beliau ni pandai nak meluah kan.. tapi aku
ni .. hhhmm .. biasa lah .. minah cut and paste .. jadi ..nak cut and
paste kat comment blog dia panjang sangat .. so aku cut and paste kat
sini jer lah yeee ...
Article nya berbaca begini :-
Sebut
segala perangai yang buruk: ego, degil,mementingkan diri sendiri,
mengikut hawa nafsu, tamak, tak bertimbang rasa .. semua nya ada pada
lelaki.
Sebut segala yang baik: baik, budiman, mulia, suci, bersih, bermutu ... semuanya ada pada perempuan!
Itulah perspsi umum. Persepsi yang
sebenarnya berhasil daripada usaha-usaha halus penggerak hak asasi
wanita untuk memesongkan alam semsta.
Realitinya, semua tu tipu.
Memang betul perempuan lemah lembut,
penyantun, penyayang, dan serba mak datuk lagi. Tapi itu dimata kasar.
Dimata halus, ... kerat kaki lapan kali pun kau tak percaya.
Yang aku nampak, yang aku tengok,
makhluk yang paling ego, paling mementing kan diri, tamak dan tak
bertimbang rasa di dunia bukan lah lelaki, bukan juga bapuk,tetapi kaum
yang satu lagi yang hidupnya sering bermodalnya air mata itu
Dakwaan itu tidak dibuat secara
sembrono. Banyak bukti nya. Tengok aje lah di pejabat anda, pekerja
mana yang paling degil, keras hati, dan payah nak dibawa berunding?
Selalunya perempuan.
Memang betul, selalu nya dia jadi
begitu kerana patuh pada bos. bagi chauvinist perempuan itulah bukti
kaum sejenis mereka pekerja yang baik. Tetapi baik dan bodah selalu nya
dipisah kan oleh garisan yang sangat tipis.
Dalam hal berurusan dengan orang pun,
selalu nya orang perempuan adalah jenis 'kalau dia kata itu, maka
itulah ... tak ada ini ini lagi'. Kalau dia kata hendak kan sesuatu,
maka dia buat sampai dapat. Jika tidak sampai tahun 7150 masehi pun dia
pasti mengunkit-ungkit. Bukan kah itu makna nya degil dan mementing kan
diri.?
Tetapi contoh paling jelas, paling
nyata dan paling sah tentang sifat perempuan yang tidak bertolak ansur,
bertimbang rasa dan tamak haloba ialah dalam bab yang kene mengena
dengan Poligami.
hakikat bahawa yang ingin dikahwini
oleh suaminya itu adalah kaum sejenis mereka sendiri., jarang sangat
diambil peduli. Hakikat bahawa perkahwinan itu akan menyelamat kan
seseorang, atau dua atau tiga orang wanita daripada tak bersuami,
jarang dihiraukan. Malah aku pernah dengar seorang perempuan itu kata,
dia lebih rela berkongsi nasi dengan kucing daripada berkongsi kasih
dengan perempuan lain.
Demikian lah loratnya kaum yang satu itu. Kaum yang biar tak senonoh macam mana pun, aku tetap berkenan ......
Matt Romeo (mattromeo@yahoo.com)
Kalau kita baca dengan jiwa
perasaan perempuan .. memang lah kita akan marah ... tapi kalau kita
baca dengan minda yang terbuka .. bukan kah ada ia nya artikel ini ....
Renung kan lah..........................
 | HHmmm | Aug 8, '05 10:38 PM for everyone |
It had been a few months since I've been away from my Pc .. so be it
here or my PF .. sama saja .. tak di update ... I had been staying over
at my Mom's house since Abah moved on ... but I think, I better moved
on myself .. to have a peace of mind and soul ... since I am there ..
abah is all around me .. I keep on thinking he will walk through the
door .. and my Ibu and I would sit around waiting .. waiting ... as
usual ... and every Friday .. we would sit around the entrance or the
laman outside as usual .. waiting for Abah to come home from Jum'at
prayers with bungkusan of foods in his hands ... be it murtabak or
briyani ... or maybe some finger foods .. like epok epok or pisang
goreng ... *sigh* *sob* *wail*
Things will nerver be the same again ... There will be no tapping on my
bedroom window by a tongkat .. there will be no bunyi slipper yang
diseret sebelah along with tapping of the tongkat along my corridor ...
The children can never cream in delight .. when I open the door for
Abah when he drop by in the morning ... and the children can nerver ask
me wether Ya'ee is coming or fetching them today .....
Hey stop .....!!!! I had promise myself not to do this .... Make du'aa
for me friends ... as you can see me laughing and be merry ... I am not
strong actually berhadapan dengan musibah ini .... I may be loud and
aksen garang or some sort .. but this museebah ... I am not strong ...
really not strong .............
Naa .. this is a farewell party actually .. for dear Iman ... who is
leaving Singapore real soon .. And hoping she gets to come back on
October .. dia belum pergi .. but I dah tak sabar nak tunggu october
for her to come back .. really gonna miss her and her lil miss Muffet -
the queen of imagination and Cookie - the princess of wails.
Had a blast with the other mummies ... and she who accommodate us in such short
notice .. thanks a million ... heheh kalau tak gitu .. tak sampai kita
kat rumah you ... kan kan kan janet kan kan...
Kepada mika mika yang tak dapat hadhir .. tak per ... tunggu June ..
ada orang dah plan nak jemput kita ... kwang kwan kwang ...
  
I fogot to bring along my digital Camera!!!!!!! Ya Allah .. whatever
happened to me .. this had never happend before .. on such meaningful
event!!!! .. wah wha .. meaningful say .. yah it is meaningful to me
... meeting my online buddies .... is really meaningful to me. even
though for a short period of time .. but the time we spend really ..
speachless ... Love their company. But all didn't get to come ..
#1
it's a last thingy thing. As in Monday baru the words spread ..
#2
Budak sekolah tengah exam
#3 .. eh jauh dah dey Pasir Ris.
But being me
... I try me best (aik macam pernah dengar) to attend come rain or
shine .. cheeebah .. hahahaha ...
feeling jeles ahh tengok Mummy and Ainn snapping away .. my itchy
fingers are all giggly ahh .. nak picit apa pun tak tau .. Lagi satu I
forget .. from all the hoo haa that is going on .. I forget .. lagiiiii
.... that I had brought my magic cone along (this thing is always in my
bag pun) So at the very last minute .. get to draw Kuntum's left hands
only ... and the next half hour .. dah nak kene chow ahhh .. the kids
are about to be dismissed form school oredy ...
Reached home at 7pm .. haiyoooo Izza was so pissed off ahh with me.
Because I had said to her that I am not going to this get together.
Just to make her feel good ahh .. Cuz she really wanna come along ..
hei exam laaa .. suka suka pulak ...~~~
I thought I can come home before she finishes school .. but hhmmm kalau dah bergelak ketawa .. mana ingat time ...
hakhahahakhahihiahiahuhuhiuhuhuooohohoakhkahkahakhkakrok krok hakhakhkahka
 | headache | Apr 26, '05 11:24 AM for everyone |
After weeks and weeks of preparing for this event... and
the on and off confirmation .. at last .. Alhamdullilah for the very
last minute (yah very last as on Friday night).. it is a go for me .. I
manage to have a booth shared with dear Widat who sells Fresh cut
fruits. putting good use of my new found skill ... I manage to attract
8 eager customers .. and some of them are butter trade .. they give me
stuff and I did their hands to a much annoyed Widat .. sorry Widat .. I
just can't say no.
So it was a Flea market .. people sell stuff that they didn't want ..
something they wanna let go but still dear to them .. or just rubbish
laying around the house .. Hey!! I have loads of stuff like that!!! ..
Next time .. I do henna AND sell my rubbish too!! heh heh heh ..
So the Henna thing is a flop ... but it is really an eye opener for me
.. and I learn from my mistakes ... hehehe .. There is another 2 other
Henna booth in the area ..
# 1 .. Highly professional .. with sign boards and tempt tattoo too ... a spray paint thing with template and all ...
# 2 .. Only sign board saying " Henna Tattoo" .. this booth sellig
stuff too .. but I soon found out that she didn't have any customer for
hennaing ... (maybe cuz her booth is next to the pro booth ... ppl may
thought it's a directional sign for the pro's booth)
# 3 .. that's mine ... only a
sticker saying "mehendi art ... adults $5.00 Children $3.00" stuck on a
watermelon ... hahahaha ...and I sat there holding a cone promoting ..
" wanna henna on your hand??" and blyme ... I had 8 ... hahahaha
But really it was an experience ...
Thank you to Widat who have confidence in me .. thank you to Mummy Jam
who come and supported .. Thank you to Iman who came with the whole
family ... and thank you for my customers who made me one happy henna
hhmm artist ?? hahahahah ... masih jauh lagi perjalanan itu .. ... *now
searching for Jewel"
  
 | Recap | Apr 18, '05 12:40 PM for everyone |
 | WHY!!! | Apr 7, '05 2:02 AM for everyone |
Multiply is giving me headache .. I ran here cuz blogspot and fotopages
are sometimes impossible .. now multiply too??? I realise that it is
getting an upgrade but ... i still now cannot upload photos on my photo
files ..... bingit siak!!!!!
I was too happy to blog bout Friday's S league match. But now .. hmmm
lupa kan saja ... kerana hati ku dah terluka ... huehhh feeling
seyyyy~~~~
Geylang won 4-1 against Woodlands .... rabakz!!~~
  
 | Camping | Mar 19, '05 10:09 AM for everyone |
 When to a BBQ gathering this time heheheh ... susah jadi orang fofular nih .. cheyyy!!! hahahahahah .... So right after noon we went to East Coast beach to meet up with my dear Widat. No beach swimming allowed for the children only sand playing. We did not spend over night there ... cuz my hunnybunch, my chiildren and I are not the outdoor kind of people ... we prefer to retire in the comfort of our fotress ... kuang kuang kuang ... Besak pagi insyaAllah will return there .... again~~~ 
 Sunday was Fun .. Went to Widat daughter's 5th Birthday Party. And it was a blast. Only a family affair which I am not.... hehehe... but joy and laughter was in the air. Started the day with thinkingof doing something different. Like .. putting on a colored scarf. Cus commented by my hunnybunch, once, that I am boring, adorning only black scarf. So I put on a yellow one yesterday, tryin to Impress him. But to my dissappointment, he said, I look so 'loud' ... ader ker patut??? tak patut, tak patut.... Back upstairs and change to my signature black scarf. Apa dahhh ... Jeles kerr??? :P and the rest of the day ... let the picture do the taking ......... ;-) 
Thanks dear Herda ... This picture .. I loike!! Tapi blur skit ahh .. heheheh Oh yes!! and yesterday .. went to an S legue match ... See full review at my fotopages ... http://bulan.fotopages.com   
 Semalam ... was Izza's annual lower primary sports day. Happy rabak minah tu nak go sekolah .. ish .. part cam ni bukan main idup lagi. Cuba suruh belajar .. hhhmmm. So the day began with the hot hot hot scorching sun, shining happily kat kitorang. Well nak tengok anak nya happening day. Panas pun tak per. Meleh leleh pun tahan. Hai kalau lah ada swimming pool. dah terjun dah. hekhehkeh. I was shocked to see Izza in her active self. Ye lah biasa nya budak ni kalau kat depan orang ramai.. malu lah konon. Tapi, she was like so sporting and spontaneous. She will chant her house song vigoriously with hands flying in the air with so much vigor. Wah budak ni kan main lagik. siap ngan lompat lompat kegemberaan an all. Well her house team is the strongest team. They wins 85% of the games. Apa tak nya. cam berok makrip member terlompat lompat .. hhmmm sebenar nya mak dia pun excited jugak.... berhooray hooray kita ngan camera ditangan. hehehehhe. Tapi yang kelakarnya .. for lower primary .. tak der cup .. cuma present jer ... hhhmmm .. sengkek ahh sekolah nih .. ppfftt!! Thought of buying for Seha a birthday cake lepas tu, It's her 3rd birthday semalam .. tapi dah penat sangat .. tak jadi lak. So rain check jer lah nak eh. Nak pegi central, bercinta. lengkali jer lah ... To Seha, Umi may not be good in arranging pretty words .. but My love for you is unconditional and my doa's for you are unlimited. May you grow up to be pious and a respectable person. InsyaAllah. 
Went to sweetheart house today .. after sending Ayush to school. had to send the remote for Cable set top to her cuz dah jahanam ... biasa lah kan .. kalau ada anak besepah .. gini lah .. kekadang remote tu dorang ingat bola. Since sweetheart ada dalam 3 minggu lagi denga starhub .. so kene lah lekas kasi dia .. kang dia dah berenti. Kene aku pegi starhub tu sendirik .. nak line up lagik... tak sanggup aku!!! Bila kat sana kene lah godeh computer dia jugak .. I was shocked like berok makrip hahahahhahah .. dia nyer computer dah kene serang ngan virus .. macam mamcam virus ... and know what ... there are more then 17000 virus infected!!!!!!! bak kata phantommomma .. mak datuk bandar!!!!!! hkahahkhakhakhakhkah. So sekarang sudah di clear kan .... tapi belum habis cerita .. Aku nak godeh sikit lagi mana mana yang patut kat compiter dia tu ... Nak try apa yang patut nak kasi laju sikit .. kalu dia ada sen nak buang kat PC dia tu lagi baguih .... leh beli apa apa anti anti yang patut .. hhhmmm So gitu jer lah ari ni ... macam real jer jadi technician PC .. heheheh .. tapi yang basic tu boleh lah kan ... Yang lebih lebih tu .. gua tak tau lah .. hahkhahakhakhkha Apa aku cerita nih .. ntah tak tau .. aper sajaaa .. ok lah .. nak kat demam agaknya .. tu pasal banyak merepek ... chiow!!!   
Yesterday was a busy day ... at 11am Ibu and Abah fetched me and the children to Civic Plaza, Woodlands. To buy some birthday gift fot my nephew, Dzulfahmi. We are going to his house in the late evening. Then off to a wedding in Tao Payoh. The Bride is a relative of mine and this is her second marriage and the groom is his first although he had reach his fifties. Jodoh baru datang. Takpe lah. Ahamdullilah. So at about 4 pm we headed to Bedok North. to my Aunt's house warming. So happy was the children. When met up with their second cousins... hehehhehe .. havoc gua cakap sama lu.. hehehhehe.. So happy to see them is their joyous moods. Then in the evening off we went over to my eldest brother's house at Jurong West, gasp!! Can you just imagine the long long ride. Naik kelabu mata tengok road yang panjang kat depan ... huih. Lenguh kaki pijak clutch. So the children had another happy session with their cousins. Sana sini dorang enjoy. But I have my fair share of enjoyments too. Meeting up with cousins and in law is the best. Can't ask for more. We ended our day at 11pm. Imagine 12 house of fun fun fun .. and hhmm didn't mention the food!!! All was superlicious!!!! I was bloated and heavy!! hehehhe ..    
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